tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3075100495072957975.post5024980462771376177..comments2022-02-02T18:10:39.792-05:00Comments on JanetheWriter Writes... : Facebook, Make Me a Match!JanetheWriterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10939674499667620123noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3075100495072957975.post-80054480951609172462009-02-20T12:25:00.000-05:002009-02-20T12:25:00.000-05:00I know what you mean. I keep thinking, "I know a w...I know what you mean. I keep thinking, "I know a whole bunch of people. Surely one of them knows someone to at least fix me up with." But that doesn't seem to be happening. Also, don't call me Shirley.PepGiraffehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11710602869237120444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3075100495072957975.post-65346072205300987962009-02-20T07:50:00.000-05:002009-02-20T07:50:00.000-05:00Dear Jane,If I could help you from Atlanta I certa...Dear Jane,<BR/><BR/>If I could help you from Atlanta I certainly would but instead maybe my story will help.<BR/><BR/>I was married in the early 80s to a man who was unkind. The marriage lasted 7 years when I had the courage to leave with my 4-year old son. At that point divorce was not common place in our community so I felt I was going into the big unknown.<BR/><BR/>During the next dozen years I was happy. I loved my work, my friends, my community and of course my kid. I was as busy as much as I wanted to be and yes I had times of lonliness. Those time were much better than the lonliness of being with someone who wasn't right.<BR/><BR/>In the late 90s I met someone but actually I didn't meet him. I had known him for at least 10 years through the temple and the community. He and I had always liked and respected each other and when his life changed he asked me out. I was hesitant to go because I didn't want to lose a friend but instead I gained my best friend.<BR/><BR/>Jane, you never know who will come into your life when. There may be someone in your life now but the time is not right. I think life hands you what you need when you need it, so keep living a wonderful, fulfilling, happy life, pursuing people and activities that you love and you will have a better life than many who are unfulfilled.<BR/><BR/>Life will be revealed to you as time passes.Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01696452090156457660noreply@blogger.com