7 Random Reminders from a Funeral During Elul

1. Late summer sunshine on the Hudson is spectacular. When you look, you can find the beauty in creation. It’s out there.
2. Karma, for lack of a better word, exists. What you put out into the universe comes back to you.
3. Get behind a cause you believe in to help repair our broken world.
4. The people in your orbit matter. Surround yourself with an ever-widening circle of those who bring you joy and help you laugh, cope, and get the most from this life.
5. A long, loving relationship is a holy thing. Those who have one truly are blessed.
6. Kudos to whomever developed Jewish mourning rituals. The thud of dirt on a casket stings, but laughter, hugs, and sweet memories salve the wound a little bit each day. Don't pick at the scab.
7. Healthy eating is a noble goal, but when grilled cheese is (the only thing) on the menu, eat up. Sometimes you have to feed your body and your soul. The hell with the carbs.